P.E.O. with a Stop at A to Z

Yesterday was Founders’ Day for Alpha Chi Omega and Zeta Tau Alpha. How fabulous that the day was celebrated from A to Z! I spent the day at Pi Beta Phi Headquarters, where an Alpha Chi and a Zeta are on staff. Julie Wisbrock, an initiate of the University of Kansas chapter of Alpha Chi Omega, and Gabbie Rimmaudo (http://www.gabriellerimmaudo.com/), an initiate of the George Mason chapter of Zeta Tau Alpha visited me in the archives and both were dressed to the pin.

A ZTA and an AXO

A ZTA and an AXO.

At HQ, I had the chance to congratulate the wonderful Betsy McCune, Programs and Operations Director for the Pi Beta Phi Foundation, on a recent television experience.  For more than a decade, Betsy has completed her Christmas shopping before Halloween decorations come down. See http://www.nbcnews.com/business/consumer/youre-already-done-your-holiday-shopping-how-aggravating-n442021

Here’s a fun Pi Phi sighting on the Today Show. Savannah Guthrie is a Pi Phi from the University of Arizona. She was also awarded a P.E.O. Scholar Award for 2001-02. She used her Scholar Award to attend Georgetown Law Center from which she graduated magna cum laude.

 

Last night at the hotel, I remembered to tune into the livestream of the Projects Night portion of the P.E.O. Convention. I have not previously stated on this blog that I adore Maria Baseggio, P.E.O.’s President of International Chapter, but I do. She is presiding at the Convention of International Chapter taking place in Indianapolis. She has done a fabulous job as International President. Before she introduced the nights events, she publicly thanked the P.E.O. sister who reached out to her on linkedin and started a conversation about livestreaming the event. Maria’s willingness to expand P.E.O. presence on social media has been appreciated by many, including me. Maria regularly comments on facebook posts and her willingness to go above and beyond her official duties is reflective of the love she has for the organization and her role as a true servant leader. Thank you, Maria, for all that you have done for the P.E.O. Sisterhood!

For more than a century, the only ones who knew of P.E.O.’s good works were initiated members of P.E.O. A decade ago, a concerted effort was made to let the members know that it was “O.K. to talk about P.E.O.” We need to do more than talk, we need to shout it from rooftops. The good that P.E.O. does for women needs to be recognized and applauded.

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From Alpha Chi Omega to Zeta Tau Alpha with a Stop at P.E.O.

Alpha Chi Omega and Zeta Tau Alpha celebrate Founders’ Day on October 15. In 1885, Alpha Chi Omega was founded at DePauw University in Greencastle, Indiana. Thirteen years later, in 1898, Zeta Tau Alpha was founded at the State Female Normal School (now Longwood University) in Farmville, Virginia.

Alpha Chi Omega’s  seven founders, Anna Allen, Olive Burnett, Bertha Deniston, Amy DuBois, Nellie Gamble, Bessie Grooms and Estelle Leonard, were students in the DePauw School of Music. With the guidance and support of James Hamilton Howe, Dean of the School of Music, they created an organization that at its beginning insisted its members possess some musical culture. The first appearance of Alpha Chi Omega was in Meharry Hall of East College. The seven women wore scarlet and olive ribbon streamers attached to their dresses to display the organization’s colors.

Zeta Tau Alpha‘s founders are Alice Maud Jones Horner, Frances Yancey Smith, Alice Bland Coleman, Ethel Coleman Van Name, Ruby Bland Leigh Orgain, Mary Campbell Jones Batte, Helen May Crafford, Della Lewis Hundley, and Alice Grey Welsh.

The patron goddesses of the organizations, Hera for Alpha Chi Omega and Themis for Zeta Tau Alpha, have special importance for each organization’s members. Alpha Chi Omega’s Hera is the guardian of women. On March 1, Hera Day, Alpha Chi Omega members dedicate themselves to “aid the happiness and well-being of others.”

Hera

Hera

In Greek mythology, Themis is the goddess of divine law and order. A Titan and the daughter of Gaea (Earth) and Uranus (Heaven), Themis mothered the three Fates and the Seasons. The constant companion of Zeus, she sat beside him on Olympus. Statues of Themis are often found in courthouses. Statues of Themis feature the scales of justice. The Zeta Tau Alpha founders chose Themis as the organization’s patron goddess. In 1903, the convention body chose her name to serve as the title of its official journal. The first issue of Themis debuted in November 1903.

Themis

Themis

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Today is a special day for P.E.O.  The Convention of International Chapter (CIC) begins in Indianapolis. I love hearing from friends who are there. Three of the women with whom I served on the Special Committee to Study Ceremonies and Meeting Procedures are in Indianapolis. Yesterday, Kylie Tower Smith, Kappa Kappa Gamma’s Archivist and a member of the Executive Board of the Ohio State Chapter of P.E.O., posted a facebook message as she departed for Indianapolis. I wish I was there, too, but I will be there in spirit. 

Although P.E.O. is now a community based Philanthropic Education Organization, in 1869, it began as a collegiate organization at Iowa Wesleyan College. There is a link available at the top of this post which provides links to the previous posts I’ve written about P.E.O.

Tonight, for the first-time, the Projects Night speakers can be viewed via live-streaming. From the comfort of one’s own home, P.E.O.s can hear the impact of P.E.O.’s six projects – Cottey College, P.E.O. Educational Loan Fund, P.E.O. International Peace Scholarship Fund, P.E.O. Program for Continuing Education, P.E.O. Scholar Awards and P.E.O. STAR Scholarship. The Project Night Live: P.E.O. Impact is one of the events of Opening Night, so while the video stream is scheduled to begin at about 7:45 EDT, it might be a little earlier or later than that. Both the link for the live stream and the blog are available on the Convention of International Chapter home page which is accessible from the P.E.O. homepage.

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On Founders’ Day – the First Five Years of Kappa Kappa Gamma

It’s Founders’ Day for Kappa Kappa Gamma and Delta Chi. I haven’t had a moment to think about anything but pre and post wedding details since last week. Our daughter’s wedding was beautiful.

To the men of Delta Chi, I wish you all a Happy Founders’ Day. The fraternity was founded at Cornell University on October 13, 1890 by a group of law students. Its founders are Albert Sullard Barnes, Myron McKee Crandall, John Milton Gorham,Peter Schermerhorn Johnson, Edward Richard O’Malley, Owen Lincoln Potter, Alphonse Derwin Stillman, Thomas A. J. Sullivan, Monroe Marsh Sweetland, Thomas David Watkins,Frederick Moore Whitney. In 1922, it was opened to men in all fields of study.

My dissertation, Coeducation and the History of Women’s Fraternities 1867-1902 discussed the seven founding National Panhellenic Conference (NPC) organizations and how the modern sorority system came to be established. Given that I do not have a post ready for Kappa’s Founders’ Day and I need to lead a Rotary Club meeting in about an hour, I am presenting the first five years of Kappa history, lifted from my dissertation. I am leaving the APA style citations in the text. Take note of how extension was done in those early years. 

A quick trip to Monmouth, Illinois happened to be when iris was in bloom. An iris from Stewart House, where it all began for Kappa Kappa Gamma.

A quick trip to Monmouth, Illinois happened to be when iris was in bloom. An iris from Stewart House, where it all began for Kappa Kappa Gamma.

Monmouth College is the birthplace of Kappa Kappa Gamma. According to an account by one of its founders, Kappa Kappa Gamma came about because the women of Monmouth College wanted a Greek-letter society like that of the men. These women were Mary Moore “Minnie” Stewart [Nelson, Field], Hannah Jeannette Boyd and Mary Louise Bennett [Boyd]. They were later joined by Anna Elizabeth Willits [Pattee]. At the 1930 convention, the names of Martha Louisa Stevenson [Miller] and Susan Burley Walker [Vincent] were added to the list of founders because they had been initiated prior to October 13, 1870. Some of the founders recalled that the organization was founded in March, 1870, but that the appearance was delayed until October 13, 1870, because the badges had been difficult to procure. Willet’s mother was the one who came up with the idea of using a key as the badge. The first badges were made by the Bennett’s family jeweler who was in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. In order to have the badges made, 12 had to be ordered at a price of $5 each. The Kappa Kappa Gamma’s first public appearance at chapel took place on October 13, 1870 and since the 1876 Convention, October 13 has been celebrated as Founders’ Day (Burton-Roth & Whiting-Westermann, 1932).

The Monmouth College Courier, a semi-monthly paper, noted the fraternity’s debut in an October 1870 issue, “They wear a little golden key, sometimes on their foreheads, sometimes on their little blue or red jackets. . . . It has three letters on it, KKG. . . We have been able to count only six of them” (“Kappa Kappa Gamma,” 1870, p. 4).

Four years after its founding, the Kappa Kappa Gamma chapter suffered the same fate as the I. C. Sorosis (now known by its Greek motto, Pi Beta Phi) chapter when anti-fraternity sentiment at Monmouth College forced the chapters to disband. There is some evidence the chapter operated sub-rosa on a very limited basis (Burton-Roth & Whiting- Westermann, 1932).

Since the fraternity had expanded beyond the Monmouth College campus, it was able to prosper despite the demise of its Alpha chapter. In regard to expansion, little is known about the Beta Chapter of Kappa Kappa Gamma, only that it is thought to have existed at Knox College in Galesburg, Illinois, from 1871 to 1874. It was later found that this chapter was actually at St. Mary’s Seminary in Knoxville, Illinois (Burton-Roth & Whiting-Westermann, 1932; Barry, 2000). In January, 1899, Boyd wrote to the Key of Kappa Kappa Gamma giving her account of the founding of the chapter at Knoxville. The Gamma chapter was also short-lived. It was located at Smithson College in Logansport, Indiana, and was formed in 1873 or 1874. 

Stewart House, October 2013 (Photo by Amanda Pilger)

Stewart House, October 2013 (Photo by Amanda Pilger)

Kappa Kappa Gamma’s Delta chapter at Indiana University was chartered on October 12, 1872, and it is surmised by Burton-Roth and Whiting- Westermann (1932) that because of the confusing dates of chartering, the Gamma chapter must have been planned for before it was chartered. A male student at Monmouth College happened to have a female cousin attending Indiana University, and in that occurrence is the beginning of Delta chapter’s
history. Willits was given the Indiana student’s name and correspondence ensued (Barry, 2000). Anna Buskirk-Hill, one of the charter members, described the founding, “When Delta was organized the whole procedure was very primitive. An oath was sent us in cipher, – later a “key” followed. After deciphering it, we signed it and returned it to Alpha. Then the Greek words of the name and motto were sent in cipher. Imagine the joy of untangling Greek words by cipher! The charter cost us $1.00 and our initiation fee was $1.00 also.”(Burton-Roth & Whiting-Westermann, 1932, pp. 23-24)

The University of Indiana chapter is the oldest continuous chapter in Kappa Kappa Gamma’s history. It has had a chapter house since the start of the fall 1892 semester (Walker, 1903). The Alpha chapter established the Epsilon chapter at Illinois Wesleyan
University in Bloomington, Illinois, on November 25, 1873. One of Epsilon’s charter members was the first woman to attend Illinois Wesleyan University (Walker, 1903).
Little is known about the sixth chapter of Kappa Kappa Gamma at Rockford Seminary in Rockford, Illinois. It evidently was in existence between 1874 and 1876. According to Burton-Roth and Whiting-Westermann (1932), only four women were initiated.

Kappa Kappa Gamma was the first women’s fraternity to establish a chapter on the University of Wisconsin campus. The Eta chapter was installed on February 2, 1875. Delta chapter at Indiana University sent a letter to Juliet Meyer, whose name was chosen out of a University of Wisconsin directory. The letter requested her to talk to her friends about starting a chapter of Kappa Kappa Gamma. There was some apprehension on the part of the potential Eta chapter members, “As nothing of Kappa Kappa Gamma Fraternity or of college fraternities in general was known by the girls, the key to the duly subscribed cipher was awaited in considerable suspense, and a great relief was felt when the really harmless nature of the dark deed was revealed to the founders of Eta.” (Burton-Roth & Whiting-Westermann, 1932, p. 87)

On March 25, 1875, the Iota chapter of Kappa Kappa Gamma was established at Indiana Asbury College (now DePauw University) in Greencastle, Indiana. The six charter members were initiated by the Indiana University chapter on March 13, 1875, in Bloomington, Indiana (Walker, 1903).

When the Theta chapter was installed at the University of Missouri in Columbia on April 2, 1875, the anti-fraternity sentiment was not as intense as it was five years later. In 1880, action was taken by the faculty to bar students from joining the secret societies, as the fraternities were called. During the early 1880s, the chapter operated sub-rosa. According to Burton-Roth and Whiting- Westermann (1932), “Invitations were issued only after a thorough and congenial acquaintance had been made with every prospective member. Since the older girls were well known as Kappas before the sub-rosa period, this acquaintance had to be gained gradually and unostentatiously. Accepting a bid in those days involved an element of risk, yet not a single invitation was refused during this entire period and no girl was initiated without the consent of her parents. One member resigned, and was afterward married to a member of the faculty. She now has a Kappa daughter. Initiations were carried on in the usual way, never being discovered nor interrupted, although certain sub-rosa girls tell harrowing tales of narrow escapes (p. 125).”

So Happy Founders’ Day to my Monmouth Duo friends. I still find it amazing that both Kappa Kappa Gamma and Pi Beta Phi were able to survive the demise of their Alpha chapters. It is an amazing story, but one that must wait for another day.

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October 10 – Founders’ Days and More

October 10 is a popular day. A number of GLOs celebrate Founders’ Day on October 10. It’s a big day in the Becque household as our only daughter is being married today (a strong-willed woman with a mind of her own, just like we raised her to be). Although most of my duties have been to write checks and to do what she asks of me (and to bite my tongue – advice from a Pi Phi friend), I haven’t had time to get any new research done on any of these groups. I hope that the information in the links is interesting, nonetheless. Happy Founders’ Day!

October 10, 1872 – Alpha Phi, founded at Syracuse University. It is the oldest of the Syracuse triad of NPC organizations founded at Syracuse. 

October 10, 1904 – Alpha Gamma Rho, founded at Ohio State University. 

October 10, 1910 – Tau Epsilon Phi, founded at Columbia University.

October 10, 1924 – Alpha Delta Gamma, founded at Loyola University, Chicago.

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Off on Tangents – Zarzoliers and a Photo on eBay

Last night, I received an e-mail question and a facebook message. Both set me off on some research and led me to write this post.

The first question was about a member of the Pi Phi chapter at Ohio State. The member in question graduated a century ago. The GLO magazines of that era all contained chapter letters. It was a way for members to know about the events taking place in their chapter and in chapters all over the country. I contend that these chapter letters in the GLO magazines helped created a collegiate culture. I’ve already written about the mentions of homecoming in early GLO magazines.

This Arrow of Pi Beta Phi entry from a March 1916 issue warmed my heart. The Pi Phi who wrote this talked first about the new NPC chapter on campus and then wrote about the Panhellenic bazaar, an early joint fundraising effort.

Chapter correspondent Ruth Spankle wrote this about her chapter’s activities:

I can scarcely  realize that it is time to write you again, as the weeks pass so quickly – and really nothing of great importance has happened to Ohio B since the last edition of THE ARROW. One thing however will be of interest to all fraternity girls! Alpha Xi Delta has been granted a chapter here, making the ninth national women’s fraternity at Ohio State. The week after the chapter was granted, Alpha Xi Delta held open house at Baker Hall, the new dormitory, all the organizations and friends being invited to meet the national officers and out·of-town members of Alpha Xi Delta as well as the new girls themselves.

Our Panhellenic bazaar, which I mentioned before, was held the week before Christmas vacation and was quite a success. It was given in the Woman’s Union and the booths were of various kinds. Each women’s fraternity had a booth and decorated it according to the things sold there – Pi Phi had the baby booth and trimmed it with tiny baby Kewpies. The proceeds from the bazaar amounted to about one hundred dollars ($100), which went into the loan fund for girls who are helping themselves through college. (The $100 the chapter raised in 1915 would be equivalent to raising more than $2,200 today.)

The middle of February a musical comedy “Zarzoliers” written by one of the students is to be given at one of the down town theaters. Several Pi Phis are in the cast and they report that the music is very clever and pretty and the whole thing is going to be a huge success.*

Last week was the first tryout for the Strollers’ Dramatic society and two of our girls received a perfect score (100%). They have still another try-out to pass but as there are only two other who received a perfect score, we are very proud of them.

The various organizations are beginning to plan for the formal dances. Kappas have already had theirs, and several come in the near future, ours will be the seventh of April at the Elk’s Hall which is very new and one of the prettiest in the city. As the time is so far away no definite plans have been made, save as to the place and date.

Just now we are all thinking about examinations which begin next week and everyone is studying hard. The girls have all been working faithfully and we hope to start the new semester with a clean slate and bigger ambitions.

*The Zarzoliers seemed to be the name of the troupe of actors. This is from the Alpha Phi Quarterly of January 1916 in an entry written by a member of the chapter at OSU, “Three of us have been very busy for many weeks rehearsing for Dreamer ‘o Dreams a musical comedy presented by Zarzoliers on February 11 and 12 at the Southern Theatre. Mary Swann and Helen Wood were members of the chorus and Fanny Arms had a lead as chaperon in which she made a decided hit with her original song A Chaperon Is Useless After All.” The comedy was written by Paul Weber Austin and Lee G. Hinslea.

This is from The Anchora of Delta Gamma of April 1916. The comedy seemed to have a cast of NPC women, “On February 11 and 12 the Zarzoliers presented The Dreamer of Dreams, a musical comedy written by Paul Austin an Ohio State student. Gladys Wildermouth, a junior, had first lead and Bertha Holtkamp, a pledge of a month, had second lead. On Saturday noon February 12, the active girls gave a luncheon at Lazarus Tearoom in honor of Elsie Grove, Carrie Zentmeyer, Ruth Wilhelm, and Marie Stohl, all of the class of 15, after which they attended the matinee performance of Dreamer of Dreams in a body.

The February 1917 Sundial, a student magazine, had this cryptic message,  “Where, oh, where, have the Zarzoliers gone? Last year, they adopted a pretty name, had a good show with tuneful music, and there was every indication that the organization would thrive and survive the onslaughts of professional musical comedy which annually beset Columbus. Even up to the latter part of last semester, symptoms of activity were evident in the forms of tryouts and rehearsals. There surely are several bright and promising Victor IIerberts and Florenz Zeigields in the polyglot of our student body who could inject the necessary tabasco into the project. We don’t know or care whose if anyone’s fault it is that the lusty infant organization has a bad case of the pip, but we would like to hear of someone applying a mustard plaster.” (Phi Kappa Psi James Thurber was on the editorial board of the 1917 Sundial.

The Pi Beta Phi members at the Ohio State University, circa 1911, a few years before the chapter report was written. Notice the headbands!

The Pi Beta Phi members at the Ohio State University, circa 1911, a few years before the chapter report was written. Notice the headbands!

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A Delta Gamma friend messaged me last night, “Look what is on ebay – GREAT photo – look at zoom photo for crisp detail http://www.ebay.com/itm/231348138011.” The auction is titled, “Vintage Victorian Photo, Portrait, Print- 1900- Graduation Girl at Bucknell.” It is a cabinet photo and the description of the item is “1900 photo from Bucknell Univ in PA.  so pretty.  with a sorority or academic pin.  no tears or flaws I can see.” The woman is wearing a Pi Beta Phi badge.

The Pi Beta Phi chapter at Bucknell University was chartered in 1895 and two of the charter members achieved special prominence. The first was Mary Bartol (Theiss), a writer who went on to serve the Fraternity in many ways. The second was Mary Belle Harris, who after a long career in teaching, went on to serve as the first female warden in a federal prison. I am not sure if this is a photo of either of these women. 

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Who Tells Our GLO Story?

It seems Americans have become very polarized. Or maybe it’s just because social media has provided a very large stage to pontificate. When someone we dislike/disagree with/despise does or says something which we do not agree with, it’s a major transgression and a cause for swift punishment. When someone we like/agree with/admire does something of equal weight, there is a tendency to offer leniency or some slack/understanding/empathy because their “intentions were good.” 

The Greek-letter organization (GLO) world is one in which there are polar opposite views with little ground for those in the middle. It seems that GLOs are either loved or despised. Click on the comment section of any internet article having to do with fraternities or sororities (never mind that the articles are usually negative in themselves). It’s hard to believe the amount of  hatred for our organizations which is spewed in those comments. There are those who believe that if our organizations were banned from every college campus, collegiate life would be absolutely rosy and perfect. (See http://wp.me/p20I1i-1is for the debate that was going about GLOs more than 100 years ago.)

Lyrics from the musical "Hamilton," written by Lin-Manual Miranda, done in modern calligraphy by Simone Becque

Lyrics from the musical “Hamilton,” written by Lin-Manual Miranda, done in modern calligraphy by Simone Becque.

The stories of our Greek-letter organizations are interesting. All too often, members only know the story of their own GLO and relatively little about the other GLOs. While we all like to think that our organization is the best of the best and that in the competition between all the groups ours is the winner, the truth is that we are much more alike than different. Moreover, to the world at large we are all the same. For better or worse, we are family. When one chapter of one GLO screws up, we all take the blame.

Is every chapter of every GLO perfect in every way? Absolutely not. The collegiate chapters of our organizations are run, for the most part, by 18-22 year olds who come and go as if by revolving door. They enter the organization usually knowing very little about it or the expectations of Greek life. Advisors and HQ staff educate the membership about leadership, nurture them in their leadership decisions and help them learn valuable lessons; these experiences are but a few of the benefits of Greek life. Errors will be made. Hopefully there will be lessons learned through those challenges and their failures or successes.

From my twitter feed, it’s evident that there were many good works done by GLOs this past weekend. Community clean-ups seemed to be popular.

Proud of our brothers for helping clean up the campus after a busy homecoming weekend.

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Yesterday we were privileged to serve w/ EWB, and the brothers of !

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Braved the rain for Greeks clean the streets this afternoon!

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we had over 500 students attend the homecoming clean up! thank you to those that helped out!   (the picture wasn’t cooperative in moving it to this blog).

The brothers had a great time this weekend volunteering at the Boys and Girls Club annual KidsAuction!

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It’s Never Not Hazing!

When is hazing not hazing? It’s never not hazing, but apparently when professional sports teams do it, it doesn’t matter. “Rookie Dress Up Day”? Come on professional sportsmen, let’s stop the hazing!

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Remember: “but the Cubs do it” won’t save your chapter.

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 And another instance has just hit my twitter feed – http://nypost.com/2015/10/02/yankees-veterans-rookies-integral-part-of-this-team/.  
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This post from the Scary Mommy blog resonated with many woman. Kudos too Delta Zeta Melissa L. Fenton for writing it.

Joke All You Want, But My Sorority Days Were Golden

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It was almost 25 years ago this fall that I pledged a sorority… (For the rest of the post see http://www.scarymommy.com/club-mid/joke-all-you-want-but-my-sorority-days-were-golden/)

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That damn mum sale is over! On Tuesday, nearly 400 mums were delivered to our home at 6 a.m. in the dark and rain. When I ordered the mums two weeks ago, we had about 150 of the minimum order unsold. On Tuesday morning, we placed the 50 or so that were unspoken for on another section of the lawn and by Tuesday evening, almost all were gone. The Rotary Club of Carbondale – Breakfast will be presenting a check to the Carbondale Boys and Girls Club for more than $1,200. Kudos to my husband Dan who had to listen to me worry about the unsold mums, knowing full well he might soon be the proud owner of 100 mums. Many thanks, too, to the club members who followed me in this first ever mum sale and made it work. 

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Condolences, Congratulations, and Kudos

Condolences to the Alpha Chi Omega chapter at Pennsylvania State University. On Sunday, September 27, 2015, sophomore Vitalya “Tally” Sepot died at the scene in a one-car roll-over accident on the Pennsylvania Turnpike. The seven students in the car were Alpha Chi Omega and Tau Kappa Epsilon members who were returning from a trip to raise funds for THON, PSU’s student philanthropy. The other six students in the car were taken to the hospital. My thoughts and prayers are with the chapter and family members as well as the PSU THON community.

THON is the PSU IFC/Panhellenic Dance Marathon. From its beginning in 1977, the event has raised more than $127 million for the Four Diamonds Fund at Penn State Hershey Children’s Hospital. Teams solicit funds in many ways, but a tried and true way is by canister solicitation, “canning.” Last weekend was the first of three official canning weekends. THON 2016 will take place February 19-21, 2016. Below is a photo from the chapter’s twitter feed of the memorial service held yesterday evening. (For additional information about the memorial service see  http://www.collegian.psu.edu/news/campus/article_7ee12d80-67e9-11e5-afae-b76bc5df6e6f.html)

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Happy Founders Day to Delta Kappa Delta, founded in 1999 at Texas A&M University, and Sigma Alpha Epsilon Pi, founded in 1998 at UC-Davis.

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Lies, Damn Lies, and Statistics…1 in 5 Women???

Mark Twain once said, “There are three kinds of lies: lies, damned lies, and statistics.” There’s a statistic running around the GLO social media world and it bothers me on several levels. There are a slew of graphics which tout the statistic “1-in-5 college women will be the victim of sexual assault/violence” – the two terms seem to be interchangeable on these graphics. Another graphic touted that same statistic but used the word “sorority” in front of “women.” It sounded as if being in a sorority was the deciding factor in being a victim of sexual assault/violence, in the same way that the statistic makes it sound like being enrolled in college is a deciding factor in one’s vulnerability. National crime statistics dispute the fact that a college campus is more dangerous than any other place. A college-age woman who is not enrolled in higher education has a greater chance of being the victim of sexual assault/violence than one who is on a college campus. However, that fact never makes it into the graphic.

1-in-5? I am not making light of the subject and my heart goes out to anyone who has been the victim of a sexual assault/violence. I think one woman who suffers is one too many. What the statistics don’t state is that in most instances (75-80%), the victim knows the attacker. Moreover, most of the incidents involve alcohol or other drug impairment. Staying sober and aware is likely the best method of preventing sexual assault/violence. Let’s put that in a graphic, please.

The original internet survey from which the data were extrapolated had a 43% response rate from 5446 undergraduates at two institutions. In a December 14, 2014, Time magazine article, the authors of the study, Christopher Krebs and Christine Lindquist, stated, “First and foremost, the 1-in-5 statistic is not a nationally representative estimate of the prevalence of sexual assault, and we have never presented it as being representative of anything other than the population of senior undergraduate women at the two universities where data were collected—two large public universities, one in the South and one in the Midwest.”

Another study conducted by the Association of American Universities, came up with a 1-in-4 statistic. However, of the 780,000 students on 27 campuses who were sent the survey, only 150,000 students completed the survey. The response rate of less than 20% is very low and likely may not be representative. It’s more likely 25% of the 20% who responded rather than 25% of the female college population.

I hope I am not the only one who is questioning these statistics and the spouting of them as gospel truth. I have very real doubts about the validity of the claims. I also take issue to giving wolf whistles, name calling, and unwanted touching the same weight as a rape at gunpoint. Does one lump paper cuts in the same category as stab wounds?

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As the wife of a college professor (the first Dr. Becque), I get to hear his stories from the classroom. When this popped up in the twitter feed, I read the article.

Worth A read – so what do we do? https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/freedom-learn/201509/declining-student-resilience-serious-problem-colleges

Then I sent him the link to this article about the decline in students being able to handle adversity; he thought it was spot on. Personally, I think it has its roots in participation trophies, but that might just be because just last week I recycled a box of old trophies that were cluttering up the basement.  https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/freedom-learn/201509/declining-student-resilience-serious-problem-colleges 

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A Weeks’s Worth of GLO News

Here are some of the articles I’ve read over the past week:

The inaugural Phillip A. Cox Volunteer Institute honors Sigma Phi Epsilon’s immediate past Grand President. Cox served from 2013-15 while at the same time battling cancer. The institute was funded during the 2015 Conclave earlier this summer (see http://www.sigep.org/blog/sigeps-announces-phillip-a-cox-volunteer-institute.html). Six institutes are planned for this fall. The first took place in Bloomington, Indiana last week. The Indiana University chapter is the chapter nearest and dearest to Cox’s heart. He was initiated into the chapter and has worked closely with it over the years since his initiation. An article from the Indiana University student newspaper talks about the chapter’s relationship to Cox.(see  http://www.idsnews.com/article/2015/09/phil).

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Teresa Mendez has spent 30 years living in the University of Illinois Delta Gamma chapter house. As House Director, she has been a surrogate mom to hundreds of Delta Gamma members. She is the longest serving GLO house director on the University of Illinois campus. At the end of the academic year, that distinction will go to someone else. Mendez, who became an alumna initiate of Delta Gamma, will retire (see http://www.news-gazette.com/living/2015-09-20/she-fits-dg-t.html).

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When the members of the Phi Kappa Psi chapter at UC Berkeley found out that the home of active member Jacob Gill was destroyed by one of the recent California wildfires, they quickly sprung into action and set up an on-line fundraising campaign. The home was also the location of the family business and the chapter knew that their brother’s college career might be in jeopardy. Gill’s father Tim is also a Phi Psi. He was initiated at California Polytechnic State University. The campaign started September 14 with a goal of $10,000. It closed eight days later with more than $16,000 collected from Phi Psi brothers and chapters across the country. The funds will be used to help pay for Jacob’s tuition, room and board expenses. (see http://www.phikappapsi.com/news/gillstory phi psi)

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Indiana State University recently honored the family of past National Panhellenic Conference Chairman (2005-07) Elizabeth “Betty” Ahlemeyer Quick, Gamma Phi Beta*. The Ahlemeyer family was the fifth family recognized for the university’s Legacy Award. The award honors multi-generational ISU alumni. Quick earned a Master’s degree from ISU. (see https://www2.indstate.edu/news/news.php?newsid=4479) And in case you missed it, last year Quick was awarded Association of Fraternity/Sorority Advisors’ Jack L. Anson Award. (*The pot was up for about 24 hours when a Gamma Phi friend alerted me that I had neglected to include that information. I apologize for the oversight.)

Award

2015 Indiana State University Legacy Award

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Some very sad news crossed my path. Kappa Kappa Gamma’s governing council voted to sell their historic headquarters in Columbus, Ohio. I’ve written about the Snowden-Gray House and Heritage Museum of Kappa Kappa Gamma in previous posts (see https://www.franbecque.com/2012/10/12/happy-founders-day-kappa-kappa-gamma/ and https://www.franbecque.com/2014/09/22/church-library-masonic-temple-governors-home-repurposed-buildings-glo-style/). It is heartbreaking to me, a non-Kappa, to read about the sale. While I understand that it is expensive and difficult to adapt an old structure to modern purposes, I hate that the historic structure will be discarded by the organization. There are also many Kappas who are concerned about the sale. They have started an on-line petition (see http://chn.ge/1KGHly9).

The Snowden-Gray House, Kappa Kappa Gamma's Headquarters

The Snowden-Gray House, Kappa Kappa Gamma’s Headquarters

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Yesterday, General Robert Neller, a Theta Chi, became the 37th Commandant of the United States Marine Corps.

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