Happy Founders’ Day, Alpha Epsilon Phi and Delta Zeta

The 1921 edition of The Sorority Handbook by Ida Shaw Martin contained this information about the two organizations who celebrating their founding on October 24. Delta Zeta founded in 1902 was not yet 20 years old and Alpha Epsilon Phi was about 12. Note that they both have full governing councils. The women serving their organizations were young career women and homemakers. These women dedicated themselves to nurturing and growing their o

Delta Zeta was admitted to membership in the National Panhellenic Conference in 1910. Alpha Epsilon Phi did not become a full member of NPC until 1951, although it had been given associate membership in 1947.

Alpha Epsilon Phi*

October 24, 1909

National Council

Dean, Lillian R. Hirsch, 115 Broadway, New York City

Exec. Sec., Lillian Unterberg, 11 West 86th St., New York City

Rec. Sec., Frances V. Erdofy, 854 West 180th St, New York City

Treasurer, Dorothy Grant, 35 Mt. Morris Park West, New York City

Historian, Mrs. Nathan H. Feitel, 830 Broadway, New Orleans, La.

Ritualist, Mrs Alice Borchard Green, 137 West 110th St. New York City

Field Secretary, Harriet Moses, 1626 Amsterdam Ave., New York City

Editor, Mrs. Ellis Slatoff, 580 St. Nicholas Ave., New York City

Chapter Roll – Adelphi, Cornell, Denver, Hunter, Illinois, Newcomb, New York State College for Teachers, New York University, Pennsylvania, Pittsburgh, Syracuse

Alpha Epsilon Phi has 11 college chapters, and 5 alumnae associations. The total membership is 500, the active membership 200, the average initiation (yearly total) 75. The badge shows the three sorority letters, jeweled in pearls, and placed in sequence upon a narrow gold bar. The pledge pin is a triangle enameled in white with a narrow border of green. The coat-of-arms displays three pillars, supporting entablature that carries the three sororoity letters, and resting upon a broad base inscribed with the sorority name in Greek. At the base of the central pillar is the Book of All Ages carrying the motto, Multa Corda Una Causa. Above the book is a lamp of friendship. At the base of the outer pillar burns bowls of incense. The sorority has no national flag.

Colors – Green and White. Flower – Lily-of-the-Valley. Jewel – Pearl. Open Motto – Multa Corda Una Causa. Insignia – Three Pillars, Book of All Ages, Lamp of Friendship. Patron – None. Call – None.

Magazine – Alpha Epsilon Phi Quarterly – 1918

Convention – New York City – 1921.

*For Jewish Women

Delta Zeta

October 24, 1902

Grand Council

President, Rennie Sebring Smith, Y.W.C.A., Muncie, Ind.

Vice-President, Ruby Long, Cashmere, Wash.

Secretary, Louella Reeder, Baldwin, Kansas.

Treasurer, Mrs. Carl G. Malott, Box 411, San Benito, Tex.

Historian, Mrs. John M. Coleman, Loveland, Ohio

Big Sister, Mrs. Nettie W. Shugart, 231 N. 14th St., Lincoln, Neb.

Registrar, Henrietta Schlegel, 73 Harwood Ave., Mt. Washington, Pa.

Parliamentarian, Alys Sutton, 1640 Fowler St., Portland, Ore.

Editor, Arema O’Brien, 78 W. 4th Ave., Columbus, O.

Chapter Roll – Baker, California, Cincinnati, Cornell, Denver, DePauw, Eureka, Franklin, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas State College, Lombard, Louisiana, Miami, Nebraska, North Dakota, Ohio State, Oregon State College, Pittsburgh, Washington State, Washington State College, Wisconsin

Delta Zeta has 22 chapters and 13 alumnae associations. The total membership is 2,200, the active membership 450, the average initiation (yearly total) 200. The badge is a Roman lamp, flanked with Mercury wings and supported by the cap of an Ionic column. The sorority letters appear in black enamel on the bowl of the lamp, the official jeweling being a diamond in the flame of the lamp and four pearls at the base of the cap. The pledge pin is diamond-shaped and is inlaid with a gold lamp.

Colors – Old Rose and Nile Green. Flower – Killarney Rose. Jewel – Diamond. Open Motto – None. Insignia – Lamp, Bible, Scroll, Distaff, Bodkin.

Magazine – The Lamp –  1909

Convention – New York City, 1922

From Alpha Epsilon Phi’s website: Alpha Epsilon Phi Sorority was founded on October 24, 1909 by seven Jewish women at Barnard College in New York City.  Their goal was to foster lifelong friendship and sisterhood, academics, social involvement and community service while providing a home away from home for their members.  The dream that was born in a dorm room at Barnard College in 1909 continues to succeed, prosper and thrive on over 50 college and university campuses nationwide.

From Delta Zeta’s website: We’re nearly 270,000 women strong with 170 active collegiate chapters! Our Founders might not have imagined 117 years plus of sisterhood, or so many sisters. But they’d be delighted to know they have inspired a group of women, who have made a promise to live truly, and to continue doing so one generation after another.

Happy Founders’ Day, Delta Zeta and Alpha Epsilon Phi!

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Georgia O’Keeffe on Kappa Delta’s Founding Day

Kappa Delta was founded on October 23, 1897 at the State Female Normal School (now Longwood University) in Farmville, Virginia. Its founders are Lenora Ashmore Blackiston, Sara Turner White, Mary Sommerville Sparks Hendrick., and Julia Gardiner Tyler Wilson, the granddaughter of U.S. President John Tyler.

In 1902, Kappa Delta’s second chapter was established at the Chatham Episcopal Institute (now Chatham Hall) in Virginia. A short-lived chapter, it was forced off campus in 1904 by the school’s administration. Among the women initiated into the chapter during those two years was Georgia O’Keeffe. She enrolled at Chatham in 1903 and graduated in 1905. It was the Institute’s principal and art instructor, Elizabeth May Wilson, who encouraged O’Keeffe’s interest in art.

Georgia OKeeffe in her college days.
Georgia O’Keeffe as a student at the Chatham Episcopal Institute.

After her graduation from Chatham, she continued to study art in addition to teaching. In 1923, O’Keeffe said, “I found that I could say things with colors and shapes that I couldn’t say in any other way – things that I had no words for.”

Know as the “Mother of American Modernism,” O’Keeffe died in March 6, 1986. A prolific artist, she lived nearly a century, and left her mark on the art world. She won the Medal of Freedom, the nation’s highest civilian honor,

O’Keeffe’s legacy is preserved at the Georgia O’Keeffe Museum in Santa Fe, New Mexico. In 1998, the O’Keeffe Art and Leadership Program for Girls was established there and it provides opportunities for young women ages 11-13. Each summer, the Kappa Delta Foundation funds two paid internship opportunities working with the leadership program.

White Rose with Larkspur by Georgia OKeeffe, circa 1927. The white rose is the flower of Kappa Delta.
White Rose with Larkspur by Georgia O’Keeffe, circa 1927. The white rose is Kappa Delta’s flower.
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Alpha Chi Omega, Zeta Tau Alpha and Ravinia

October 15 is Founders’ Day for both Alpha Chi Omega and Zeta Tau Alpha. In 1885, Alpha Chi Omega was founded at DePauw University in Greencastle, Indiana. Thirteen years later, in 1898, Zeta Tau Alpha was founded at the State Female Normal School (now Longwood University) in Farmville, Virginia.

Alpha Chi Omega’s  seven founders, Anna Allen, Olive Burnett, Bertha Deniston, Amy DuBois, Nellie Gamble, Bessie Grooms and Estelle Leonard, were students in the DePauw School of Music. With the guidance and support of James Hamilton Howe, Dean of the School of Music, they created an organization that at its beginning insisted its members possess some musical culture. The first appearance of Alpha Chi Omega was in Meharry Hall of East College. The seven women wore scarlet and olive ribbon streamers attached to their dresses to display the organization’s colors.

Zeta Tau Alpha‘s founders are Alice Maud Jones Horner, Frances Yancey Smith, Alice Bland Coleman, Ethel Coleman Van Name, Ruby Bland Leigh Orgain, Mary Campbell Jones Batte, Helen May Crafford, Della Lewis Hundley, and Alice Grey Welsh.

Ravinia, in Highland Park, Illinois, north of Chicago, was a hopping place. In August of 1920, it was in its 16th season. The moniker, “summer opera capital of the world” was becoming its claim to fame.

August 3, 1920, Chicago Tribune

Alpha Chi’s Alpha Alpha Alumnae Chapter held a picnic at Ravinia on Thursday, August 5. The women attended the Chicago Symphony orchestra’s afternoon concert. Then they enjoyed a meal on the porch of Ethel Sutherlin Bergey’s home at Ravinia. Her husband Theodore spent the summer coaching grand opera. Some of the women stayed afterwards and attended the Symphony’s evening performance.

Ethel Sutherlin Bergey was a member of the Alpha Chapter of Alpha Chi. An alumna of the De Pauw School of Music, she studied there under Alpha Chi’s patron James H. Howe. In 1891, Alpha Chi’s first convention took place in her home. She studied opera in Europe and was “well known in the music world,” according to a profile in an Alpha Chi publication.

Ethel Sutherlin Bergey

Zeta Tau Alpha’s Eighth Convention took place at the Congress Hotel in Chicago from August 3 until August 9 and there were about 80 women in attendance. Among the convention’s highlights was a talk by National President Dr. May Agness Hopkins about her war work in France. Hopkins also spoke on “The Upbuilding of a Nobler and Purer Womanhood.”

Fern Eaton’s report in The Themis included this tidbit, “I haven’t told you about the theater part Monday night, which we all attended, nor of the highbrows who went to Ravinia to hear the Metropolitan opera singers in Carmen, nor – shall I say it? – the lowbrows who could not resist the big circus over in Grant Park….”

Although the Zetas attended Ravinia on Wednesday and the Alpha Chis were there on Thursday, one can hope that perhaps the Zetas who might have been sporting their badges ran into Ethel Sutherlin Bergey and they exchanged Panhellenic greetings. I also suspect that over the past 100 years, Panhellenic women have been meeting and enjoying performances at Ravinia.

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Happy 150th, Kappa Kappa Gamma!

On October 13, 1870, Kappa Kappa Gamma made its debut at Monmouth College in Monmouth, Illinois. It has been said that Kappa’s organization took place earlier in the year, but its public appearance didn’t take place until October “because they were unable to secure their badges more promptly.” Having walked the Monmouth campus and downtown many times, I always try to envision what life was like for those 1870 coeds. It never fails to amaze me that Kappa and its Monmouth Duo partner, Pi Beta Phi, are here today. Both were forced to cease operations when the college banned all fraternal organizations in the late 1870s.

In those days, the Alpha Chapter, the Mother Chapter, was typically the head of governance of the organization. It issued charters and ran the show. Lucky for both Kappa and Pi Phi that the women who joined the other young chapters of the organizations took charge of things and continued without their respective Alpha chapters. Those who follow the founders often don’t have their status or glory, but their work as “builders” is of vital importance to the organization.

One of the most influential of early Kappa builders was Tade Hartsuff of the Mu Chapter at Butler University. As an undergraduate she advocated for a Grand Council governance model and she proposed the founding of a fraternity magazine. She served as Kappa’s first Grand President while still an undergraduate. During her term of office, Kappa invited six groups to a meeting in Boston. It was the first attempt at Panhellenic cooperation. She was Grand President from 1881-1884. She graduated the same year that she left office.

In 1886, she married John Bugher Kuhns, a member of Phi Delta Theta. She loved attending Kappa conventions and she was at the 50th anniversary celebration on Mackinac Island. At the Golden Jubilee Tade Hartsuff Kuhns gave to Kappa Kappa Gamma the full length portrait Elizabeth Gowdy Baker painted of her. I’ve seen it in person and it is breathtaking. Baker, an alumna of the Monmouth College Kappa chapter, captured Kuhn’s spirit, and the painting is simple and yet elegant at the same time.

Kappa’s First Grand President Tade Hartsuff Kuhns

The 50th Anniversary of Kappa Kappa Gamma was celebrated in 1920 at the Grand Hotel on Mackinac Island in Michigan. Although two founders, Louise Bennett Boyd and Jeannette Boyd were still alive, they were unable to attend the festivities. No only were the two Kappa sisters, they were also sisters-in-law, Louise having married Jeannette’s brother. The two wrote a letter which was published in The Key:

Dear Kappa Sisters: Permit us to thank you for the many kind words spoken of the early Kappas, and especially of the ‘Founders’ at the recent Convention, and also for the lovely invitation to be their guests during the Convention and ‘in transitu.’ We regretted very much that we could not accept the hospitality of the Kappa girls and have a part in all the interesting ‘doings’ of the Convention. We more than ever regret it since meeting a number of those who attended and who have given us such glowing accounts of the gaities they enjoyed. I presume we might have contributed a unique group at the ‘bal masque’ as the greatgrandmothers of the order – any way, we should have enjoyed looking on.

We very highly appreciate the favor done us in giving us an honorary connection with the ‘Students’ Aid Fund’ which will prove such a blessing to many an ambitious girl of the future and we trust that it may grow into a rival of the Carnegie Fund in the coming years. If we can be of any service in the way of information at any time, we shall be glad to know of it. With greetings to all the Kappa girls we are, very sincerely, Yours in the Kappa bonds.

Helen C. Shepherd, a member of the Upsilon Chapter at Northwestern University, wrote of her convention experience. Although 100 years have passed, I think her words are as true today as they were then:

The greatest impression which I received was the ‘spirit’ of Kappa. I had never realized or thought how big Kappa really is, and I believe there are others like me. It seemed to me that Kappa was centered only around the chapter in which I was initiated and the alumnae of my own chapter. I was very much startled when I realized that all the girls in the big dining room of the Grand Hotel at Mackinac knew the secrets and ideals of Kappa Kappa Gamma….So many new ideas that other chapters have tried I have brought home, and the one which stand out the foremost — is the ‘spirit’ of Kappahood. I hope that I can express to my chapter that which seemed most impressive to me.

The pictures from the convention which were published in The Key were wonderful. Here are a few of my favorites. I was glad to see that Tade Hartsuff Kuhns, one of Kappa’s greatest builders, was there to enjoy the festivities.

Happy 150th, Kappa Kappa Gamma. With love from a member of your Monmouth Duo partner.

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Gladys Gilpatrick, Alpha Delta Pi, the Only Woman With a Column in Memorial Stadium at the University of Illinois

I’ve written several histories of fraternities and sororoites for the Society for the Preservation of Greek Housing. World War I took its toll on the Illinois campus and that came through in each of those histories.

After the war’s end it was decided to build a stadium in honor of the students who left campus and perished in the war effort. Memorial Stadium was dedicated on October 18, 1924; it was the University’s 15th Homecoming. On the east and west sides of the stadium there are 200 columns; 183 of those columns display the name of a University of Illinois student or graduate who lost their life in World War I. All but one of those names belong to males.

The sole woman who lost her life and who is memorialized with a pillar in the stadium is a 1917 graduate, Gladys Gilpatrick, who was an initiate of Sigma Chapter of Alpha Delta Pi.

Gladys Gilpatrick is in the bottom right hand corner in this photo of the Sigma Chapter of Alpha Delta Pi at the University of Illinois taken from the 1916 Illio.

In 1917 women could not yet vote in a federal election. They could not serve in the Armed Forces except in peripheral roles such as nurse, ambulance driver, telephone operator, etc.

Gilpatrick, who was from Plano, Illinois, began her post college career as a teacher. Wanting to help in the war effort, she attended a course for nurses at Vassar College in Poughkeepsie, New York. She was in nurse’s training at Philadelphia General Hospital. There she came down with influenza. It developed into pneumonia and she died on October 12, 1918.

In the June 1919 Adelphean, Margaret Hill Pletcher, the Sigma chapter’s correspondent wrote:

We feel that Gladys was a war heroine, in spite of the fact that she didn’t go across. When taken ill she was studying nursing, preparatory to going ‘over there.’ Permission had been granted to the student nurses who so desired to return to their homes until after the epidemic, but Glad, characteristic of herself, stayed to give what help she could. Although we think of her death with the greatest sorrow, we are, nevertheless, very proud of her.

When Memorial Stadium was dedicated, 35 Alpha Delta Pi alumnae returned from towns outside of Champaign and Urbana. A good many local alums attended, too. According to an account in the January 1925 Adelphean, Gilpatrick’s mother, father, and sister attended dinner at the chapter house and returned for a short visit after the dedication. 

October 16, 1918, Illini
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Elizabeth Northup on Alpha Phi’s Founders’ Day

Alpha Phi is the oldest of the Syracuse Triad, the three women’s National Panhellenic Conference organizations, Alpha Phi, Gamma Phi Beta and Alpha Gamma Delta were  founded at Syracuse University in Syracuse, New York.  In 1871, a chapter of Delta Kappa Epsilon was established at Syracuse University. 

In September of 1872,  Martha Foote (Crowe), Clara Sittser (Williams) and Kate Hogoboom (Gilbert) discussed  the situation. Foote led the charge and pondered the thought of women  having fraternal organizations comparable to the ones the men enjoyed.  They  invited all the college women to discuss the possibility.

In September 1872, 10 women – the original three and Jane Higham, Clara Bradley (Burdette), Louise Shepherd (Hancock), Florence Chidester (Lukens), Ida Gilbert (Houghton), Elizabeth Grace (Hubbell), and Rena  Michaels (Atchinson) met and pledged allegiance to the sisterhood.  Minutes from the first meeting noted that Michaels was chosen president, plans were  made for weekly meetings at which literary exercises would be part of the  program, and a 25¢ tax was levied for the purchase of a secretary’s book.  The  first debate was “Resolved – that women have their rights.” Founders’ Day is celebrated on October 10.

Elizabeth Northup, grew up in Waltham, Massachusetts, where she graduated from Waltham High School in 1888. She entered Boston University and became a member of the Eta Chapter of Alpha Phi. Northup earned an A.B. in 1894 and graduated with Phi Beta Kappa honors. She later earned a Masters of Arts degree at BU.

Northup served as Alpha Phi’s President from 1896-1898. Anna Hersey (Cadmus) was elected President at the 1896 Convention but was only able to serve for four months. Northup took over and presided at the 1898 convention in Boston. It rained throughout the convention but “this could not dampen the spirits nor lessen the enjoyment of the members.”

Northrup served as editor of The Alpha Phi Quarterly for three years, from 1894 until 1897. The “pages of The Quarterly under her evinced intelligent interest in the people and affairs of other colleges and in the ‘Sparks from Many Forges’ alumnae set forth their various observations and opinions.”

In 1926 Alpha Phi’s convention took place at Swampscott, Massachusetts. There, Northrup was authorized to write a memorial service.

She was one of the few women who served as a trustee of Boston University. In the fall of 1941 she spoke to the Sigma Kappa Boston Alumnae Chapter as a member of the Boston City Panhellenic Speakers’ Bureau. The Sigma Kappas said she was “a charming speaker.”

A song Northup wrote appear in the Alpha Phi Songbook. (There are some versions of “Rose of No Man’s Land available on the internet for those interested in singing along.)

Northup edited publications for the Women’s Foreign Missionary Society of the Methodist Church, the New England Conservatory of Music, and the Waltham Watch Company. In addition to her service to her Alma Mater, she was a trustee of Asbury Temple Methodist Church and the Waltham Public Library. Northup was also a steward of the Immanuel Church.

Elizabeth Northup died on May 28, 1962 at the age of 92.

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OTD in 1905, Calvin Coolidge Married Grace Goodhue

At 2:30 p.m. on October 4, 1905 in in the parlor of the home of Andrew and Lemira Goodhue, with 25 friends and relatives in attendance, the Goodhue’s daughter Grace, a Pi Beta Phi, married Calvin Coolidge, a young lawyer who was a member of Phi Gamma Delta. The bride wore a simple pearl gray silk dress with a train.

Photos courtesy of the Vermont Historical Society

The Pi Beta Phi chapter was installed on Thanksgiving, November 24, 1898. It often met at the home at 312 Maple Street. Grace Goodhue, a charter member of the chapter, served as her chapter’s Recording Secretary.

The Goodhue home in which Grace and Calvin Coolidge were married. It is now a part of Champlain College in Burlington, Vermont.

Grace and Calvin were both native Vermonters, but were working and living in Northampton, Massachusetts. After graduating from the University of Vermont, Grace Goodhue moved to Northampton, Massachusetts, to study and work at the Clarke School for the Deaf.  Calvin was an alumnus of Amherst College where he was a member of Phi Gamma Delta.

The couple met while Grace was living and teaching at the Clarke School. She lived in Baker Hall on the school’s campus. Calvin Coolidge, 32 years old with his own law firm, lived in an apartment across the street. Legend has it that she saw the man shaving as she was watering flowers outside his window. He had on a cap and upon seeing the figure in the cap shaving she laughed but carried on watering the flowers.

The couple honeymooned in Montreal. Grace Coolidge ceased her employment and she and her husband began a family. Two sons, John and Calvin, Jr., kept her busy. The Coolidge family lived in one side of a rented duplex at 21 Massasoit Street in Northampton. Her husband soon became Northampton’s mayor.

According to Grace Coolidge biographer, Cyndy Bittinger:

Grace Coolidge was an important balance to her husband. He was known for being shy and quiet, yet he chose a political career to please his father. He forced himself to reach out and meet strangers even though it was always hard for him. When he met Grace Goodhue in 1904, he found a soul mate to soothe him, as well as someone who could make others comfortable in social settings.

They shared a little more than 27 years of marriage when the former President passed away on January 5, 1933, two days after his wife’s 54th birthday.

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Rest in Peace, Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Alpha Epsilon Phi

On August 10, 1993, Ruth Bader Ginsburg took the oath of office as an Associate Justice of the Supreme Court. Although she was not the first woman on the Court, she was its first sorority woman.

Justice Ginsburg died yesterday after a long life well lived. The news of her death was a gut punch. #NotoriousRBG seemed invincible and now she is gone.

Graphic courtesy of Lyn Harris, Chi Omega’s Archivist

Ruth Joan Bader enrolled at Cornell University in Ithaca, New York, where she became a member of Alpha Epsilon Phi. She was chapter president and a member of Phi Beta Kappa. She graduated from Cornell in 1954.

Ruth Bader Cornell University yearbook)
Ruth Bader (Cornell University yearbook)

Two years later, she entered Harvard Law School. There were nine women in the class of about 500. She was the first female member of the Harvard Law Review.

When her husband took a job in New York City, she transferred to Columbia Law School. She earned her law degree from Columbia in 1959.

Justice Ginsburg taught at Rutgers Law School and then went on to become the first female to be a tenured professor at Columbia Law School. She played a major role in the women’s rights movement of the 1970s in her work with the American Civil Liberties Union and its Women’s Rights Project.

She served on the D.C. Court of Appeals from 1980 when President Carter appointed her until 1993 when she became a member of SCOTUS. Although she was small of stature, she was a commanding presence. She once said, “I would like to be remembered as someone who used whatever talent she had to do her work to the very best of her ability.” And that she did. May her memory be a blessing.

My condolences to her family, friends and Alpha Epsilon Phi sisters.

Photos courtesy of Bonnie Wunsch, AEPhi’s Executive Director
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Surprising GLO Mentions in the SIU Alumni Magazine

True confession time. I usually don’t read most magazines when they arrive in the mail. But I do get to them in time. While on a car ride last week, I took a look at an old Southern Illinois University Alumni magazine. The percentage of SIU Carbondale students who are members of a GLO is not very high and never has been since national organizations were chartered there during the pre-WWII years. Yet, collegiate members and alumni are stalwart supporters of the institution.

The inside page contained a poignant story about Kimberly Omelson, an alumna of the Tri Sigma chapter.

A few pages into the magazine was this picture of alumni who announced a new scholarship. While they are not identified as Delta Chis, at least two of them are. The Delta Chi crest is visible on their jackets.

Zoe Hansen, an Alpha Gamma Delta alumna, is quite talented and I can say that as someone who has seen several of her performances on the SIUC campus. Of course, the Hamilton tour is on hold for now.

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What Happens When You Don’t Match With Your First Choice Sorority?

Until this year, the numbers 20/20 indicated normal visual acuity. Those of us living through the year 2020 realize there is little that is normal about it. Covid-19 has made life interesting, to say the least. Several of the National Panhellenic Conference (NPC) organizations came up with a novel way of initiating women who were unable to become full members during the spring semester. Virtual initiation became an actual thing. I’m quite sure no one had that on their strategic planning bingo card 25 years ago. An Alpha Epsilon Phi chapter at Concordia University in Montréal was installed virtually and it likely started a trend. And now many women are going through sorority recruitment virtually or in a hybrid situation. Flexibility is a mainstay of almost all fall recruitments.

Primary sorority recruitment is a mutual selection process. Potential New Members (PNMs) rank their choices based on the Preference Parties they attended and then the PNMs are matched up with the chapter that offers them a bid, based on where the PNM appears on the chapter’s ranked bid list. It sounds like a complicated process and it is. Sometimes the PNM doesn’t get her first choice. Sometimes this causes much angst for the PNM (and perhaps her mother, grandmother, etcetera, etcetera).

Some PNMs are fine with whatever chapter appears on their bid card, but a few women decide not to accept the bid they are given and drop out of recruitment. It’s not always easy and while the grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence, adjusting dreams is a good lesson for the rest of one’s life. Blooming where one is planted is a skill which can come in handy throughout life. This year we are all getting a booster shot for this skill.

It’s all hard to explain to a 17 or 18-year-old who feels like she is the only one in the situation. All 26 NPC organizations are essentially the same, and one will have a similar experience in any of the groups. While our colors, badges, flowers, songs, etc. are all a little different, at the core, we believe in the same values. We are all sorority women.

This heartwarming story was posted several years ago by my Zeta Tau Alpha friend Gabbie Rimmaudo. For a time, she worked at Pi Beta Phi HQ and I loved that she would stop by the Archives when I was there. She loves fraternity history. I showed her the letter we have which was signed by Dr. May Agness Hopkins, who served as ZTA President. Her thoughts on getting her second choice chapter brought tears to my eyes and I told her so. I hope Gabbie’s story can resonate with some women who accepted bids to their second or third choice chapters. I hope they will embrace the opportunities that may be in their future.

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