Jane Tunstall Lingo #notablesororitywomen

Sometimes a picture leads to a post. Yesterday, in doing research on Harry S. Truman, I came across this wonderful photo of Jane Lingo, Margaret Truman, President and Mrs. Truman. The first name I recognized immediately.

Jane L(ingo, Margaret Truman, President and Mrs. Truman. (Harry S. Truman Library & Museum.)

Jane Lingo, Margaret Truman, President and Mrs. Truman. (Harry S. Truman Library & Museum.)

Jane Tunstall Lingo was a Pi Phi legacy. Her mother, Marie Tunstall Lingo, was a 1908 initiate of the D.C. Alpha Chapter at George Washington University. Jane and her friend Margaret Truman became members of the same chapter on February 6, 1943.

Jane Lingo as a GWU student

It was during World War II and their initiation was held in the “chapter apartment, more easily reached than a member’s home where it usually takes place. After the ceremony. the new initiates were feted with a dinner at the home of Mary Ring,” according to a report in the May 1943 Arrow of Pi Beta Phi. Due to food rationing, “it was decided to abandon the custom of having dinner in the rooms on Monday nights. So as not to lose this opportunity for all the girls to get together, it was agreed that everyone should come up for tea every Monday between the hours of four and six.”

On January 31, 1944, Margaret Truman, then the daughter of Senator Harry Truman of Missouri, christened the United States Ship Missouri at the New York Navy Yard on January 31. Her Maids of honor during the festivities included D.C. Alphas Jane Lingo,
daughter of Commander and Mrs. B. H. Lingo, and Edith “Drucie” Snyder, daughter of the Secretary of the Treasury, John Wesley Snyder.

On July 9, 1945, Pi Beta Phi’s, Margaret Truman, was the guest of honor at a picnic hosted by the Kansas City Alumnae Club of Pi Beta Phi. She was accompanied by her house guest, who was also described in other publications as her “best friend,” Jane Lingo. Approximately 175 alumnae and collegiate members “spent the afternoon swimming, boating, and playing bridge. A buffet supper was served on the lawn.”

In the summer of 1946, with First Daughter Margaret Truman unable to attend, Drucie Snyder  was chosen queen of the President’s Regatta. Jane Lingo was in her court, according to a report in The Arrow.

On February 23, 2007, Jane Lingo died. She spent more than 50 years working for her alma mater and, at her death, was its longest serving staff member. In an interview in a GWU publication, she described how she returned to GWU as an employee, “In 1956, I was back on campus taking some classes when I ran into an acquaintance who worked at GW. She told me the University was looking for a staff writer, and the rest is history.”

Her obituary in the February 28, 2007 Washington Times gives a glimpse into her life:

She earned a bachelor’s degree in French language and literature from GW in 1946 with close friend Margaret Truman.

She spent the next decade traveling and performing volunteer service before returning to GW in 1956 as a staff writer in the Office of University Relations.

She then served as assistant director of university relations from 1964 until her death.

During her years at GW, Miss Lingo earned membership in Phi Beta Kappa, and joined Mortar Board, Pi Beta Phi sorority, the GW Hospital Women’s Board, the Faculty Women’s Club and Columbian Women, which is the school’s oldest scholarship support group.

Miss Lingo was one of the first women invited to join the National Press Club in 1971.

A former president of the American News Women’s Club from 1990 to 1992, Miss Lingo was friends with journalist Helen Thomas. The two became acquainted in the 1940s when Miss Lingo attended events at the White House during the Truman administration.

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Life is Precious, Sharing Grief in the GLO World

When I was at Monmouth College last week, I happened upon the most recent issue of the College’s alumni magazine. As I quickly turned the pages, a name popped out at me. In the list of newly deceased members was the name of Cynthia Lust, an alumna and member of the Pi Beta Phi chapter in the late 1970s. The name hit me. We had met only once in my life, but it was an important meeting for me and what I do today. In 1991, after the Pi Beta Phi Convention in St. Louis, she had resigned her volunteer position as Lambda Collegiate Province President. Shortly after that, I received a call asking if I would serve the year left in her term. So a few weeks later, on a Saturday, Dan, the kids, and I drove up to Champaign, a three-hour drive on the flattest land we’d ever seen. I think it was a rainy day. He dropped me off at Cynthia’s apartment and then took the kids somewhere, perhaps a movie. During the next few hours, she trained me in what was required of the job. When Dan arrived back, he wrangled the small filing cabinet and its contents down to the mini-van. I likely sent her a note thanking her for the time together. And our paths never crossed again, yet I was so sorry to read of her passing from ALS at such a young age.

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Later, as a few of us were sitting in the kitchen of Holt House, Pi Phi’s founding home, one of the HQ staffers who was at the dedication, was reading e-mails. She told us that a Georgia Alpha member had been killed in a car crash and that there were other sororities affected, too. Brittany Feldman was the Pi Phi who was killed. The Tri Delta chapter lost Halle Scott and Alpha Chi Omega lost Kayla Canedo and Christina Semeria. How sad for the entire University of Georgia community. My heart breaks for their family and friends. Agnes Kim remains in critical condition and healing thoughts are sent to Athens. 

Yesterday, a message from a long-time friend told of her diagnosis of cancer. Not wanting to announce it to the world on facebook, she nonetheless wanted to tell us about it. It was as if someone punched me in the stomach. I hurt for her.

Life is precious. It is a fact I know all too well. I started writing this blog to help me through my sister’s death (http://wp.me/p20I1i-1j4). The only things that really matters in this life are the people who touch our lives and give it meaning. Things don’t matter. Status doesn’t matter. The ones we love and who love us in return are the only things that matter. Zadie Smith’s quote “Time is how you spend your love,” keeps running through my mind. My prayers to those who are hurting.

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Happy 168 Years, Phi Gamma Delta!

Phi Gamma Delta was founded on May 1, 1848.  The “Immortal Six” – John Templeton McCarty, Samuel Beatty Wilson, James Elliott, Daniel Webster Crofts, Ellis Bailey Gregg and Naaman Fletcher – were students at Jefferson College in Canonsburg, Pennsylvania, when they founded the fraternity. The fraternity’s Beta chapter was established the same year at Washington College in Washington, Pennsylvania. In 1865, the chapters became one when the colleges merged to form Washington and Jefferson College.

If you regularly read this blog, you likely know that Grace Goodhue Coolidge is one of my very favorite First Ladies, for a whole host of reasons. She was a charter member of the Pi Beta Phi chapter at the University of Vermont. She had the good sense to marry a Phi Gamma Delta from Amherst College. According to reports, Grace’s mother was, at first, opposed to the marriage. In his autobiography, the President said of their marriage, “We thought we were made for each other. For almost a quarter of a century she has borne with my infirmities, and I have rejoiced in her graces.”

Massachusetts Governor Calvin Coolidge won the Vice Presidential spot on the Republican ticket in the summer of 1920. At the time of the nomination, the Coolidges were in Amherst attending his 25th college reunion and the 99th anniversary of the college. A reception at the Phi Gam chapter house was arranged with his wife helping the chapter plan the event on short notice.  More than 1,500 people attended.

The Coolidge family - Calvin, Jr., Calvin, Grace, and John shortly before Calvin, Jr.'s death. Courtesy of the Library of Congress.

The Coolidge family – Calvin, Jr., Calvin, Grace, and John shortly before Calvin, Jr.’s death. Courtesy of the Library of Congress.

On August 2, 1923, Calvin Coolidge became President after the death of Warren G. Harding. The Coolidges were planning  to attend Phi Gamma Delta’s 75th anniversary celebration in Pittsburgh in September 1923, but the plans had to be cancelled. Later, a founders badge was presented to the President. At the presentation, he said, “I am very glad to have this badge. My wife wears mine most of the time.”

This full size portrait of President Coolidge was painted by Ercole Cartotto. Although it is now at the Phi Gamma Delta's Headquarters, it was originally commissioned. by the Xi Graduate Chapter originally commissioned this for the Phi Gamma Delta Club in New York City. Ercole Cartotto's painting was dedicated on February 20, 1929, in the Club library. It is "life size."

This full size portrait of President Coolidge was painted by Ercole Cartotto. Although it is now at Phi Gamma Delta’s Headquarters, it was originally commissioned by the Xi Graduate Chapter for the Phi Gamma Delta Club in New York City. (Photo courtesy of  Phi Gamma Delta)

On November 17, 1924, John, the Coolidges’ eldest and only living son, became a member of his father’s Phi Gamma Delta chapter at Amherst College. On Founders’ Day, May 1, 1925, FIJI Sires and Sons was organized.  Its purpose is to “impress upon all fathers and sons, who are members of the fraternity, and in time upon their sons, a realization of the noble trinity of principles of the fraternity, with the hope that they may outrun the fervor of youth.” President Coolidge, Sire No. 1, signed the preamble of the organization.

President Coolidge throwing out the first pitch while his wife looks on.

President Coolidge throwing out the first pitch while his wife looks on.

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On Theta Phi Alpha’s Founders’ Day

Theta Phi Alpha’s roots can be traced to the 1909 establishment of a local organization, Omega Upsilon, at the University of Michigan. Father Edward D. Kelly, a Catholic priest and the pastor of the student chapel at Michigan, felt that there should be an organization that could provide the Catholic women at Michigan with an environment that “resembled the Catholic homes from which they came.” This was in a time and place when Catholics were not always welcome in the other fraternal organizations on campus. I find it fitting that an organization founded by a Catholic Bishop for Catholic women began at a state institution that was co-founded by a Catholic priest, Father Gabriel Richard.

By 1912, after Father Kelly left campus and became the Auxiliary Bishop of Detroit, Omega Upsilon was struggling, likely because there were no alumnae to guide the organization. Even without him being in Ann Arbor, Bishop Kelly’s vision that the Catholic women at Michigan should have a place to call their own was still alive. He enlisted the assistance of Amelia McSweeney, a 1898 University of Michigan alumna. Together with seven Omega Upsilon alumnae, plans were made to establish a new organization. Theta Phi Alpha was founded on August 30, 1912 at the University of Michigan. The ten founders were seven Omega Upsilon alumnae, two Omega Upsilon undergraduates and McSwenney.

Today, just as other organizations have accepted Catholic women, Theta Phi Alpha is open to women from all religious backgrounds. Since most colleges and universities are not in session on August 30, Founders’ Day is celebrated on April 30, the feast day of St. Catherine of Siena.* Her motto, “Nothing great is ever achieved without much enduring,” is also the motto of Theta Phi Alpha.

The Theta Phi Alpha Founders

The Theta Phi Alpha Founders

Hill Auditorium, now a fixture on the University of Michigan campus, was just being built in 1912. Fielding Yost was the football coach and he led the team to a 14-0 win over Ohio State University. More than 10,000 football fans attended that game. 

According to a 1912 University of Michigan catalog, all Catholic students were “expected to become members of the Students’ Catholic Club, which meets twice a month in St. Thomas Parish Hall. The society is under the personal supervision of the pastor of St. Thomas Church. Its object is both social and religious. A fund is being collected with which to erect a Catholic Club building.”

In 1912, women were also under strict rules as to where they could live and what they could do. They could not live in the same rooming houses as men and their housing choices were to be approved by Myra B. Jordan, Dean of Women. A matriculation fee of $10 for legal Michigan residents and $25 for all others was required before a student could enter the University. An outdoor physical education fee of $5 was assessed to each student on a yearly basis. Locker rentals were $2 per year and the graduation fee was $10.

Theta Phi Alpha remained a local organization until 1919 when the Beta Chapter was formed at the University of Illinois. In addition, chapters at Ohio State University, Ohio University and the University of Cincinnati were chartered that year.

In 1921, Pi Lambda Sigma was founded as a Catholic sorority at Boston University. On June 28, 1952, Pi Lambda Sigma merged with Theta Phi Alpha. Its members at Boston University and the University of Cincinnati became members of the Theta Phi Alpha chapters on the two campuses. The chapter at Creighton University became the Chi Chapter of Theta Phi Alpha in the fall of 1952 and the Quincy College chapter became the Psi Chapter of Theta Phi Alpha in 1954.

I first heard of Theta Phi Alpha when on a Homecoming weekend in the late 1970s, I was sitting on the porch of the Pi Phi house at Syracuse University. Several alumnae stopped by to chat. With them was a Theta Phi Alpha who said that the chapter had closed and her house was no longer standing. Indeed, the Lambda Chapter of Theta Phi Alpha, installed in 1923, closed in 1968. The chapter assets were turned over to the Catholic Newman Center. The Alibrandi Center is located upon the site of the former Theta Phi Alpha house. There is a plaque inside the center thanking the Theta Phi Alphas for their generosity.

Theta Phi Alpha’s Silver Jubilee convention was held in Ann Arbor in 1937 and its Centennial Convention took place there in July 2012. Happy Founders’ Day, Theta Phi Alpha!

*Saint Catherine of Siena was canonized in 1461. From 1597 until 1628, the feast of Saint Catherine of Siena was celebrated on April 29, the date she died. In 1628, due to a conflict with the feast of Saint Peter of Verona, hers was moved to April 30. In 1969, it was changed back to April 29.

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In Monmouth, Important Events Galore!

It should come as no surprise that many of these posts are written a hour or so before they are posted, with a cup of coffee at my side.

My current favorite mug with the serious design flaw. The arrows are only visible if I drink my coffee with my left hand.

My current favorite mug with the serious design flaw. The arrows are only visible if I drink my coffee with my left hand. Target, please take note.

This morning, I needed more coffee than usual. On Wednesday, my daughter and I took a road trip. After I picked her up we headed north to Monmouth, Illinois. It’s a five-hour drive, about a third of it on two-lane roads. (The thrill of being in a long line of cars in back of a farm implement going 25 miles an hour is one that I’d never experienced until moving to Illinois.)

We made it to Monmouth, checked into its finest hotel, the Americinn, and changed into our “whites.” I am not giving away state secrets by mentioning that Pi Phi initiates and attendees at initiation wear white. We made it to Holt House, Pi Beta Phi’s founding home, where two young women were becoming alumnae initiates of the Illinois Alpha Chapter. Their grandmother had been initiated into the same chapter in 1932. Their great-great-grandmother was the chapter’s 44th initiate, and served as an officer in the early years of the fraternity. Their mother is a member of the University of Arkansas chapter. Needless to say, it was a joyous event.

After the beautiful initiation ceremony, the newest members of the chapter were treated to a Cookie Shine, a tradition that began six years after the founding of the fraternity.

Arrow shaped cookies baked by the wonderfully talented Amanda Pilger, Alumnae Advisory Committee Chairman left

Arrow shaped cookies for the Cookie Shine.

The next morning a wonderful event took place. The new home of Illinois Alpha was dedicated.

The house on the left is the college owned home that the chapter used for five or six years. The house on the right is the house which was dedicated on Founders' Day.

The house on the left is the college-owned home that the chapter used for several years. The house on the right is the house which was dedicated on Founders’ Day.

I insisted on parking in the Holt House lot and walking across campus to the new chapter house. I wanted to give my daughter a glimpse of the streets where the Pi Phi founders walked. We went through the Huff Athletic Center where the facade of the old gymnasium is incorporated into the design of the center. It’s one of my favorite places on campus. I pointed out the football field on which her brothers played in the Turkey Bowl where the prize was the coveted Bronze Turkey; it is one of the oldest collegiate rivalries in the country, Monmouth College versus Knox College. 

As a crowd gathered in the parking lot of the house, there was much hugging as old friends greeted each other. I spied a Kappa Kappa Gamma (she’s also a P.E.O.) in the mix.

Gail Owen, Monmouth College Trustee and Kappa Kappa Gamma Council member on the left

Gail Owen, Monmouth College Trustee and Kappa Kappa Gamma Council member, on the left.

The new home was a gift to the college from the Knapheide family to honor their mother, Mary MacDill Knapheide. Her son and daughter gave a wonderful gift to the College in her memory.

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I am certain Mrs. Knapheide would be proud of their generosity and devotion. The house is exquisite on the inside and outside. It sits on the corner across from the Fraternity Complex and Stewart House, Kappa Kappa Gamma’s founding home. It is an impressive anchor on the northeast side of the campus.

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The dedication and ribbon cutting were joyous events, too. The rain had moved through the night before and all took place according to plan. The Pi Phis in the crowd sang two rounds of Ring Ching, Ching despite not being at tables with available water glasses and coffee cups. Two spoons hit together produced an acceptable sound.

The display in the Ring Ching room. Astute Pi Phis will note the two Past Grand Presidents on the screen in the middle. That the image was there when the picture was taken happened quite randomly as that is a computer screen generating changing images.

This is the historical display in the Ring Ching room. Astute Pi Phis will note the two Past Grand Presidents on the screen in the middle. That the image was there when the picture was taken happened quite randomly as that is a computer screen generating changing images. There is also a picture honoring the Monmouth Duo with the two then-Presidents in attendance. (Photo courtesy of Monmouth College)

I had a hand in helping with the historical displays and it was terrific to finally meet the project manager for the displays, Sara Deuel of Dimensional Innovations. She is an Alpha Sigma Tau. The graphic designer for the project is a Chi Omega, but she was unable to attend.

Sara Deuel and I finally had the chance to meet.

Sara Deuel and I finally had the chance to meet. (Photo courtesy of Monmouth College)

After touring the house and oohing and aahing over all the delightful touches, I made my way back to Holt House. As I walked towards Broadway, the Alpha Tau Omega flag greeted me. The names of the ATO founders, Glazebook, Marshall, and Ross, flashed into my mind. Perhaps it was a nod to the twelve young women who founded Pi Beta Phi 149 years ago to the day.IMG_0611

In addition to April 28 being the start of the countdown to 150 years of Pi Beta Phi, it also happened to mark the 75th anniversary of Holt House opening its doors to the Monmouth community.

Mary MacDill Knapheide visited Holt House shortly after it opened as a memorial to Pi Beta Phis founders.

Mary MacDill Knapheide visited Holt House shortly after it opened as a memorial to Pi Beta Phi’s founders.

The afternoon’s events included a dedication of a painting of Pi Phi’s founders which will hang at Holt House. Committee member Lisa Lahman Carmin, Indiana Gamma, coordinated the project with a Bloomington, Indiana, artist, Carole Diane Heslin.

Four members of the Holt House Committee along with the painting of Pi Beta Phis 12 founders.

Four members of the Holt House Committee along with the painting of Pi Beta Phis 12 founders.

It was a Pi Phi Founders’ Day spent in the home where Pi Beta Phi was founded 149 years ago, when the world was a different place. The women of 1867 could not fathom the world in which the women of 2016 live. But the one constant, the sisterhood which they shared, is the same sisterhood which has touched the lives of more than 300,000 women in those 149 years. I find it all so amazing. On to 150, Pi Phi sisters!

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And Hearts That Are Bound by the Wine and Silver Blue!

When I accidentally became a member of the New York Alpha Chapter of Pi Beta Phi, I had no idea where Monmouth, Illinois, was located. It was there in Monmouth on April 28, 1867 that the organization was founded. As one born and bred on Long Island, I had a New Yorker’s view of the world and anything to the west of the Hudson River was just an empty space until California and the other ocean came into sight. I would have been hard pressed to locate the state of Illinois on a map, let alone figuring out where Monmouth was situated.

As life sometimes happens, I have been a resident of the state of Illinois longer than any other place I’ve lived. I have been to Monmouth many times and I have been in that house where Pi Phi was founded 149 years ago. I have walked up the staircase, holding on to the same banister that the Founders did. I have stood in that very room and wished I could transport myself to that Sunday afternoon in a different time and place. Those young women, most of them teenagers, created an organization that has grown and changed and yet at its core offers today’s members the same values and benefits. I am but one very tiny, tiny little link in one very longggggggg chain of sisterhood.

I love this wonderful wine carnation made by Lake Angel Glass!

I love this wonderful wine carnation made by Lake Angel Glass, Past Pi Beta Phi Grand Council member Karen Price!

Today, I am in Monmouth celebrating the 75th anniversary of the opening of Holt House to the public. After falling into disrepair, it became uninhabitable and was auctioned off for delinquent taxes. It was purchased by a Pi Phi father and turned over to the fraternity. Some who had seen the property thought it needed to be razed. After consultations with structural engineers and architects, the building was found sound and renovation began.

While at Holt House, I like to read the old guest books. I came across the name Marilyn Simpson in one. It’s the same Marilyn Simpson who married Bill Ford and edited The Arrow of Pi Beta Phi for many years. Marilyn had not yet become a member of the Nebraska Beta Chapter at the University of Nebraska, her mother’s chapter. That would happen in 1943.

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I will likely write more about today’s events, but before I sign off I wish my Pi Phi sisters a very Happy Founders’ Day! Thank you, Jennie H., Jennie N., Fannie T., Fannie W., Ada, Inez, Magaret, Clara, Rosa, Emma, Nancy, and Libbie!

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A Busy Weekend for GLO Members

This past weekend was a busy one in the GLO world. Founders’ Day celebrations, International Reunion Day festivities for my Alpha Gamma Delta friends, philanthropies galore, Awards celebrations and a few Spring Formals, too.

I spent Saturday morning at a Rotary District Assembly. There, I listened to two presentations on recruitment and retention. Yes, civic organizations discuss the same topics that GLOs discuss. The pesky truth is that every membership organization needs to keep one eye constantly on those important issues. And none of what I heard on Saturday morning was news to me. It was the same message I heard decades ago as a new member of a women’s fraternity preparing for my first recruitment on the other side, from the recruitee (rushee) to the recruiter (rusher). “Life is just one big recruitment party” is a theme that was going through my head as I sat through the presentations on Saturday. Did I mention that I have 10 meetings left in my term as Rotary Club President, but who’s counting?

When I left the Rotary event early, it was to get to the Relay for Life accounting table. From my twitter feed, it appeared that there were several others going on around the country and that GLOs were participating in those, too. Our Relay is in its 23rd year and it is one of the oldest in the region. I recall our first Relay which was held in McAndrew Stadium. The stadium was named for William McAndrew, a Phi Kappa Psi from the University of Chicago chapter, who was a much loved coach here in Carbondale. The stadium was torn down in 2011, but it hosted several early Relays. Over the years, the accounting procedures have changed, a shift from real money to on-line contributions has taken place, but our accounting facilities are almost always locker rooms. Saturday’s accommodations were in the coaches’ locker rooms at the new Lew Hartzog Track and Field complex. The fraternity and sororities at SIUC made up the majority of the teams and brought in the most money. On a campus where the membership of GLOs has never exceeded 10 percent of the student body, I find this impressive. One of the groups which has participated in the event from its early years is the Sister to Sister team, comprised of alumnae from the four National PanHellenic Council sororities, Alpha Kappa Alpha, Delta Sigma Theta, Sigma Gamma Rho, and Zeta Phi Beta.

The SIUC Alpha Gamma Delta chapter

The SIUC Delta Phi Epsilon chapter

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The best part of my accounting duties was getting to catch up with my 93-year-old friend who roped me into doing the accounting duties decades ago. She is a cancer survivor who still teaches dance to youngsters and adults. She is an amazing woman and I want to be just like her when I grow up. She and Eleanor Roosevelt shared a birthday and a connection was made when her father, a florist, delivered a bouquet to the First Lady as she was travelling through a Kansas town. Mrs. Roosevelt thanked him for the bouquet and mentioned that it was extra special as it was her birthday. He remarked that it was his daughter’s birthday, too. From that exchange a series of letters were exchanged between the two who shared a birthday. There’s a story in there, and I just need to convince her of it.

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Happy Birthday Charlotte Rae and a Founders’ Day

Happy 90th birthday to Charlotte Rae Lubotsky, better known as Charlotte Rae, and to a generation as Mrs. Garrett on The Facts of Life. She became a member of Alpha Epsilon Phi at Northwestern University.

Charlotte Rae as Mrs. Garrett

Charlotte Rae as Mrs. Garrett

Northwestern University holds a special place in film, television sitcom, and GLO history. In addition to Charlotte Rae Lubotsky, the NPC women who attended Northwestern, many of whom left for Hollywood before graduation, are:

Aneta Corsaut, Alpha Omicron Pi, The Andy Griffith Show

Mary Frann, Delta Gamma, Newhart

Martha Hyer, Pi Beta Phi

Laura Innes, Alpha Chi Omega, ER

Carol Lawrence, Alpha Xi Delta, The Carol Burnett Show, Mama’s Family

Cloris Leachman, Gamma Phi Beta

Stephanie March, Kappa Alpha Theta, Law & Order: Special Victims Unit

Ann-Margaret, Kappa Alpha Theta

Patricia Neal, Pi Beta Phi, The Homecoming: A Christmas Story

Mary Beth Peil, Gamma Phi Beta, Dawson’s Creek, The Good Wife

Jeri Ryan, Alpha Phi, Star Trek: Voyager

Inga Swenson, Alpha Phi, Bonanza, Benson

Leigh Taylor-Young, Kappa Alpha Theta, Peyton Place

Kimberly Williams-Paisley, Alpha Phi

There are also a goodly number of fraternity men who were initiated into chapters at Northwestern University who later went on to stage, film, and television careers. That is a list for another day.

Patricia Neal, 1946 Northwestern University campus queen

Patricia Neal, 1946 Northwestern University campus queen

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Happy Founders’ Day to Alpha Kappa Lambda. It was founded at the University of California, Berkeley on April 22, 1914. It was the first fraternity to be founded west of the Rockies (there were chapters of other fraternities on California campuses including UCB and Stanford, but they were all founded east of the Rockies). Alpha Kappa Lambda’s roots go back about eight years before that when a four men who had helped with the cleanup after the 1906 San Francisco Earthquake expressed a desire to form a house club. This desire was expressed during a YMCA conference and the friends talked about the need Christian men had for an affordable place to live and study. House clubs were common in the days before colleges and universities provided college or university housing and meal plans. In 1907, they came together as “Los Amigos” house club.

One of the Founders Reverend Gail Cleland, later said, “When we organized Los Amigos as a house club…house clubs and fraternities were dime a dozen. They came, they lived for a few months or a few years, then they went out of existence again. But Los Amigos did not go out of existence.” Seven years later, spurred on by a suggestion from the University’s President, the men became a fraternity of one chapter. In 1920, another chapter was founded  at nearby Stanford University.

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Happy Founders’ Day Tri Sigma!

Although the following article, “Relation Between Sororities,” was written more than a century ago, the points it makes still ring true:

In the colleges and universities where sororities are located, there is always present a keen spirit of emulation between the several sororities—and this is as it should be. It is wholesome, for out of this sort of competition are bound to develop improvements and progress for each one taking part. No sorority is worth belonging to that has not for its one goal and ambition to be the ‘best sorority in school.’ But too often this generous emulation develops into a bitter rivalry. Too often there remains behind ill feeling between two sororities long after the occasion that has given rise to it has been forgotten. They continue to ‘nurse their wrath to keep it warm;’ they will blindly oppose each other upon every occasion. This, of course, results in hurt to both.

Their material interests are the same, they have the same aims and purpose, the same interests and the attainment of these do not conflict with the prosperity of each other; but if the two would cooperate each could more easily attain its own interests. If a sorority is weak the other sororities ought to do all in their power to strengthen it, because it will give to the enemies of the sorority system a weak point to attack, and this system, as a consequence of its growth and development, has called out a great deal of opposition. Can we afford to weaken ourselves by dissension within, when we should be strengthening ourselves for opposition from with-out? It is certain that the precarious position that fraternities and sororities hold in many schools has been brought about by a lack of harmony among the Greeks themselves.

But it is not right for us to wish to keep the relations with our sister sororities harmonious merely because it is the best policy. Rather let us exemplify the fraternal spirit for which all sororities stand. That sorority is small, it is a failure, that teaches its members to keep or display this fraternal spirit only in the small circle of its own members, and denies it to all not its members.

The movement of cooperation is in force in almost all of our schools, Pan Hellenics and similar organizations that have for their purpose the adjustment of matters between sororities, and look after their interests in other ways. But in almost all places the conditions might be improved. All Tri Sigmas should always be found at the head of any movement that proposes to better the conditions between the sororities. If we could only succeed in keeping the desired degree of harmony among the various sororities the weak sororities would become stronger and the stronger sororities yet stronger.

The purpose of this article is not to mark out nor to advocate any new policy; it is an exhortation to bear an old one in mind, to forget those little misunderstandings that are likely to remain over a rushing season, or from some failure to secure some honor in school. Such feelings may be the most natural in the world, but they are contrary to the spirit that it is the purpose of sororities to engender. (The Triangle of Sigma Sigma Sigma, December 1909)

Violets, Sigma Kappa's flower

Violets, Tri Sigma’s flower

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Catching Up!

Yesterday, a friend sent me a link to this article about Genevieve Forbes (http://trib.in/20Igkng). She was sure Forbes, a Northwestern alumna, was a sorority woman. I started googling, and what did I find? There was a mention of her in a post I did on the Roosevelts – “Genevieve Forbes Herrick, Kappa Alpha Theta, Northwestern University, was a noted reporter of the day and several histories talk about Herrick being part of Eleanor Roosevelt’s inner circle.” 

Another friend, on her way to the installation of the Georgia Beta Chapter of Pi Beta Phi at Emory University, left from the Columbus, Ohio, airport. She posted this picture of the statue of Jerrie Mock, a Phi Mu, who was the first woman to fly solo around the world. I wrote a post about Mock last month (http://wp.me/s20I1i-9737).

The statue of Jerrie Mock at the Columbus, Ohio, airport. (Photo courtesy of Penny Proctor)

The statue of Jerrie Mock at the Columbus, Ohio, airport. (Photo courtesy of Penny Proctor)

Another photo from the Georgia Beta installation made me smile. It features Pi Phi staffers, who are also Pi Phis, Ashley Karth and Alex Roark, along with two Pi Phi legends, Carol Warren and “Sis” Mullis. You know a fun time was had by all if those two women were involved!

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Pet Day was last week and I missed it, but one of my offspring posted a picture of my two dogs and my two granddogs. The dark brown ones are my granddogs. All four have instagram accounts (full disclosure – I have nothing to do with those instagram accounts).

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For those of you who enjoy movie reviews, I offer this one done my my daughter, http://news.wsiu.org/post/siu-reviews-zootopia. If you enjoy it, there are others by Simone Becque at http://news.wsiu.org/programs/siu-reviews. I just listened to a few of them for the first time and I love that one she quoted my father’s line, “a true story that never happened” in the one about the Steve Jobs biopic.

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